

Many relationships fail because of the expectations placed on one another. Desperation Has A Certain SmellĪ friend once said to me on the way out to a bar, “I’m looking to get married.” I’m pretty sure that’s the wrong attitude with which to head to a bar.Įven if you meet the "right" person at a bar, he or she may not want the pressure and heaviness of a "looking to get married" attitude. Working hard to make yourself a super cool person with diverse interests means you will attract someone equally as desirable.Īnd, even if you don’t, you’ll end up being a pretty incredible person. Obviously, there's more to you than that. So, when quantum physics states that two similar things are bound to be attracted, you have no choice but to listen.Įndlessly looking for your life’s match means putting it out there, suggesting that’s what you are all about. Okay, I have no idea what quantum physics is all about, but I have a sneaking suspicion it’s the real deal. My theory is that dating nonstop or spending hours manifesting a plan to find your true love is a waste of time. Yes, I know people who have found love on dating sites, but the majority of my friends are continually looking - and spending all of their time doing it. Another friend of mine will come over to drink wine and be on Tinder the whole time.

I have friends who won’t go to a party unless there will be single people of their sexual preference there.

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